| Location | Dundee |
| Age | 19 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 15/01/1980 |
| Date of Death | 13/10/1999 |
| Visitors | 1,114 since 15/01/2009 |
| Creator |
Darren was always the cute little one who managed to cheekily wrap everyone around his little
finger, not get into trouble even when he did leave toys lying everywhere causing me to take many a
tumble...........my little brother,the baby out of us always for 19yrs managed to make me laugh,
make me cry, make my sad and even make me mad but most of all he made me smile, even when things
were bad I always knew my bro was there. Until that day in October when he changed his mind and
decided to leave us.
Bro on that day in October as I drew up outside the flat I knew before I opened the door I had lost
you, that little bro of mine,you made me feel pain like no other, I was angry at you for leaving me
thinking if you loved me how could you leave you were my baby, most of all I was angry at myself for
not being there for you.
As I held you I knew you but couldn't understand. you said to me " Sis I love you but have gone
somewhere better who knows where when I get there I'll watch out for you tell
Dad,Michael,Kayleigh,Dylan and Keirran I love them and always will. I'm sorry" although your
spelling was still terrible when you wrote it hee hee.....
We'll never know exactly what happended that night and still not sure if will ever stop trying to
figure it out. But one thing I do know is I love you Bro and always will.
My broken heart..
Will never mend
So lots of kisses..
I shall send
We think of you..
In a better place
With beautiful wings..
And a smile on your face
Every day is a struggle you see
Trying to cope..
So please help me
How do I cope?
I do not know
My heart is broken..
So that goes to show
I can't except you are gone
I need you here..
Please keep me strong
Stay by my side..
Show me the way
Help me to cope every day
I love and miss you so much..
And I always will
Since you have been gone..
Time has stood still
I think of you in heaven..
With Gods Angels up above
Please my precious Angel..
Watch over me with love
FOR SOMEONE VERY SPECIAL
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Someday - by Ingrid AspeySomeday once more we'll meet you,
No one knows just when,
We'll meet in a lovely place
Never to part again.
Someday once more we'll meet you
And feel your tender touch
And tell you again what you've always known
That we love you very much
copyright� Ingrid Aspey April 2009
Dear lord before i sleep tonight,
I need a few answers please,
Ive asked so many times before,
But this time im begging on my knees.
Why did you take my loved ones away,
I just need to understand,
Are they all happy up there,
Walking in your land.
Do they know who i am,
And can they still see me,
Is there really life after death,
And are they flying free.
Lord alls i want is just one hug,
just one last little kiss,
To let them know that i still care,
Dear lord thats all i wish.
Well again i have no answers,
But i will try again tomorrow,
One day you must answer me lord,
And take away my sorrow.
But for now my lord,
I lay down to sleep,
Close my eyes,
And try not to weep
Copyright� Becky Tuffs 2009
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~~~~~~ Thank You My Friend ~~~~~~~
I would like to thank you very much
for everything you do.
My friend your inspiration
has helped to pull me through
All the comfort you bestow
helps when I'm feeling low
And without people like you
I would never have got through.
I know that you can't put things right
but you have helped me my depression fight.
So never under estimate the power of a friendly word
not to money or riches can friendship be compared.
There's nothing in life that can compare
to a caring friend who is always there.
So thank you my friend for all you do
and always remember I'll be here for you.
Copyright� Ingrid Aspen
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Night time comes with just more sorrow,
I hope its a brighter day tomorrow,
I lay here crying at night,
Afraid to turn out my light.
Watching from my window,
As strangers watch my tears flow,
They dont know what i eel inside,
They dont know that my loved one died.
If they did would they stop awhile,
And just try to make my frown a smile,
Or would they simply walk on by,
As if they never seen me cry.
Alls i need is just a friend,
Someone who i can depend,
Who when i cry wont run away,
But stick by me from day to day.
Copyright� Becky Tuffs 2009
WITH LOVE .XxX
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Next To You
You cannot see or touch me
But I’m standing next to you
Your tears will only hurt me
Your sadness makes me blue
Be brave and show a smiling face
Let not your grief show through
I love you from a different place
Yet I’m standing next to you
Unknown
I love you!
Icant believe ten years has past already they went so fast... It only feels like yesterday... Your always in my thoughts and by my side... Miss you so much....Kayleigh X
Happy 10th Anniversary
Hi Darren, the last 10 years have passed so quickly but wherever you are I hope you are happy and at peace. I also hope you have met up with Ryan and the two of you are having a blast. Take care, love Auntie Wilma xx
Quietly I weepAlthough I seem to hide it
My sorrow's still so deep
Missing you in silence
Quietly I weep
I long to see your smile
Hear your laughter, hug you tight
But you're no longer with me
You've headed toward the light
I'm sure you are quite happy
Here on earth I miss you so
Asking that same question
Why was it you that had to go?
I am sure there is an answer...
One that might make sense
When others offer reasons
I'm just on the defense
If they could understand me
Know how hard life is with grief
Just hold my hand and listen...
That would be a great relief
Although I seem to hide it
My sorrow's still so deep
Missing you in silence...
Quietly I weep
Remove
MISSING YOUThey say there's a reason.
They say that time will heal.
But neither time nor reason
Will change the way we feel.
For no one knows the heartache
that lies behind our smiles,
No one knows how many times
we have broken down and cried.
We want to tell you something
so there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of
but so hard to be without.
We cannot bring the old days back,
when we were all together.
The family chain is broken now,
but memories live forever.
GOD BLESS
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To All Parents:I'll lend you for a little while, a child of mine, He said.
For you to love while he lives, and mourn when he is dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty two or three,
But will you, 'til I call him back' take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and shall his stay be brief
You'll have his lovely memories, as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay, as all on earth return
But there are lessons taught down there, I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd lifes lanes, I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love, not think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call, to take him back again.
I fancied that I heard them say, Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy this child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shower him with tenderness and love him while we may,
And for the happiness we have known, forever grateful stay.
And should the Angels come to call, much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand
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